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08 February 2010 @ 05:11 pm
 
Hey guys - don't forget the Valentines meet happening this Saturday! probably will be a small one, but will be nice to see people there. There will be a small Valentines card exchange :) Please see the post below.

Because of elevated concerns of safety at meets I have set the default security for all new posts as members only. When you make a new post please don't go back and change this, the last thing we want is some creepster stalking us or anything! Because of this if you watch the TPC but haven't yet joined i'd recommend you join now, otherwise you won't see the posts!

On a slightly related note, TPC meets are meant to be for people interested in lolita to go and make friends and then hang out with the friends they've made through the community. They're meant to be fun :) No one should have to worry if their clothes aren't good enough or if they're too fat or shy etc etc.

Hopefully we won't really have to deal much with this but therefore

*If you have found to be insulting, rude or just downright nasty I will talk to you. It might be that you had no idea you were upsetting people and everything can be cleared up amicably.

*If this happens again you will get a three meet (month) ban

*if you still persist then I think it's best that you don't join in with the TPC anymore

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rozenxmaidenrozenxmaiden on February 8th, 2010 06:02 pm (UTC)
"elevated concerns of safety"
...really? ;___; *scared*


loli terrorists? xD
blondedebatesblondedebates on February 8th, 2010 06:47 pm (UTC)
lol!

Nahh just that there's creepsters around generally and this the community has got so big it's probably better to be a bit more cautious you know? A policeman was giving out rape alarms and bells at the tube station today XD

Also last meet someone was really just rude and nasty so I thought there should probably be a better way to deal with it then let people get upset and bitch.

Nothing to be scared about!
rozenxmaidenrozenxmaiden on February 8th, 2010 06:59 pm (UTC)
oh right ^^' thanks :P

They gave rape alarms out at my university halls last year, and someone dropped theirs down a drain outside when they were messing arround with it. The loud noise could be heard for days as no one could get it out the drain xD
blondedebatesblondedebates on February 8th, 2010 07:03 pm (UTC)
Oh no! XDD
I tried mine to see how it worked and it hurt. a lot. D:

Are you coming on Saturday?
rozenxmaidenrozenxmaiden on February 8th, 2010 07:09 pm (UTC)
I want to, but I will have to discuss with Pretzel :P
We are going to Lolita in Wonderland so might be too much monnies/effort to go to London twice in one month ;_;
blondedebatesblondedebates on February 8th, 2010 10:01 pm (UTC)
ahh well at least I'll see you then if you two don't make it! Will be nice if you can though :)
sherbertsugar on February 8th, 2010 08:14 pm (UTC)
Hey Kyra,
Do you think I could take June if it's not already been claimed? :D
xxx
blondedebatesblondedebates on February 8th, 2010 09:59 pm (UTC)
Of course! I thought you had last time I saw you but I haven't got round to updating the main page yet :)
sherbertsugar on February 8th, 2010 11:41 pm (UTC)
Excellent :D
Moseymoshiicake on February 8th, 2010 09:03 pm (UTC)
I heard that there were some nasty comments passed around at the last meet.. I heard something about "cankles". I hope it doesn't continue :(
pixie_latepixie_late on February 8th, 2010 09:24 pm (UTC)
What's cankles? And oh dear I wasnt there last meet, i saw pics and you all looked awesome!

Count me in for this one!
Moseymoshiicake on February 8th, 2010 09:37 pm (UTC)
Cankles = calf ankles, ie. your ankles are so fat they merge into your calves. not very nice :(
I missed it too, so sad!
blondedebatesblondedebates on February 8th, 2010 10:00 pm (UTC)
don't worry it won't :)
The person who made the nasty comments is on a temporary ban, so it should be all nice from now on!
Moseymoshiicake on February 8th, 2010 10:13 pm (UTC)
Yay! I know that sounds mean, but people need to know that they need to be nice to others and to keep their mouth shut if they can't think of anything nice to say :(
lemonrabbitlemonrabbit on February 11th, 2010 07:30 pm (UTC)
Hi, I'm new and just found this, can I come?
Hi. I'm in London for a few months, and I just found this while browsing the EGL livejournal. Would it be okay if I join you on Saturday? I know it's late notice. My name is Susie, I'm 21 and like sweet and classical lolita. Yoroshiku~
blondedebatesblondedebates on February 11th, 2010 08:15 pm (UTC)
Re: Hi, I'm new and just found this, can I come?
Of course it is! Comment on the latest post so the organiser (lowly_concubine) knows your coming!

see you on Saturday :)
lemonrabbitlemonrabbit on February 11th, 2010 11:29 pm (UTC)
Re: Hi, I'm new and just found this, can I come?
Thanks, I will do that :)
where hypotheses come to diemadman101 on March 26th, 2010 04:14 am (UTC)
hello brits -

you've got a nice wee community here! i just thought i'd pop in and let you know i've started, by coincidence, a new community called green_tea_party. it would be nice to have any of you join. if only for the silliness of it. although it is not british, and is unlike your own community, you could still be happy that you are, by joining, witnessing a true part of american history being made. i do need members to start it up...

if anyone would like to post about it, that would be fab - if not, then that would be more what i should expect, methinks, as i have seldom had success in much of anything

pip pip ta ta and ta

madman101 - subject of her majesty, and drinker of tea...